Saturday, June 13, 2015

Summer is here!

Well, it's been a while.  We've been quite busy and I haven't had much downtime.  The boys played soccer for a couple of months and didn't like it.  They made the commitment, so they finished, but I'm pretty sure neither will ever play soccer again.  Soccer was over in mid-May, so we had some downtime between sports and I think that helped us to finish out the last of the year.  My oldest finished up 6th grade and my youngest 1st.  They won't ever be at the same school again and that makes me sad. :(  Reed is now in the youth group at church and I think he's excited about that.  

We finished up the house and moved in over Mother's Day weekend.  The first night, all we had were beds and the TV (you know, priorities.) :)  We had pizza and watched a movie in lawn chairs.

It took a couple of days to get the couches over, so the boys ate breakfast before school in their lawn chairs.  While wearing their robes. 

Then the rain came.  We had a RIDICULOUS amount of rain in May.  I think it rained something like 27 days out of the month and it wasn't a soft rain either. We would have full on downpours!  The water never came in the house, but was a little to close for comfort.  Our tank definitely filled up.



I was glad when it finally quit and dried up because I was scheduled to have my brother & sister-in-laws baby shower here at the first of June.  The rain has really messed up the road and Brian had to get quite a few loads of dirt to fix it.  They would bring 3 or 4 loads a day and he would get home after work and get on the skid steer and work on smoothing it all out until after dark. He really busted his hiney getting stuff ready for the shower.  It was a really pretty shower... too bad I didn't take ANY pictures! :(

So we've been in a little over a month and we love it.  They boys love the stairs and Nerf gun wars are a regular occurrence... I find Nerf bullets all over the place.  The boys started SEALS practice last week.  Reed has moved up in age groups, so his practice is at 7:00 am. So we leave the house at 6:45 and I've been running while he swims.  Hudson's practice isn't until 8:45, so Brian brings him to the pool a little later.  We leave at 9:45, so that's a full 3 hours at the pool for me and Reed 4 days a week.  I can see that wearing thin by the end of the season. I can tell he is growing, because he eats a LOT and there has been a lot of this...


We finished up our church VBS last night, so we are just worn out.  I was a group leader and Reed helped out with crafts. It was a long week and we are looking forward to free days next week... with rain/thunderstorms in the forecast, SEALS may get cancelled and we may get to sleep late. :) 
We have SEALS until mid-July and then not much planned after that.  We have our road trip in August which the boys and I are really looking forward to.  We didn't go anywhere last year because of the building of the house, so we are ready for vacation. We will be hitting Hot Springs National Park and Great Smoky Mountain National Park.  Hopefully before we leave for our trip Makenzie and Ryleigh (my twin nieces) will be born.  Becky is due at the end of August, but I don't see anyway she will make it that long.  She is a tiny little woman (about as tall as Reed), and I don't see how those two babies will fit in there very much longer.  Aside from that, lots of plans for swimming, snow cones, lazy days of TV and games with some water parks and other fun things thrown in.  Yay for summer!

Saturday, March 28, 2015

Soccer and Musical Instruments

We had our first soccer game today.  

They've only had two practices, so I wasn't really expecting much.

This kid is a mess.  :)
He spent a lot of his time on the outskirts and wouldn't really get in there to get the ball.  He told me he was afraid to go after the ball because he thought he would get hurt, so there was lots of spinning in circles and feigned exhaustion after small snippets of jogging.  Then at another point in the game, he ran over to me (while everyone is playing) and told me that "in case I wanted something cold, but not to drink, there was a Sno-cone stand right over there."  I guess the temptation of the sno-cone stand was too hard to resist even if a soccer game was going on.  I think he had fun and he was definitely fun to watch. :)

This one however...

Was a beast!  He was all over the field giving it everything he had.  One of the coaches was on him quite a bit, but I think it was because he sees potential in him.  Reed isn't good with criticism (constructive or not), so he was beat down.  It really warmed up today and by the end of the game, all of the kids were exhausted - they run back and forth the entire hour!  He was so hot and tired, but he never complained.  I was so proud of him!
We went to lunch and then over to the middle school.  Kids going into middle school have to choose from 3 electives - art, choir or band.  He chose band, so we had to go to the "instrument fitting".  He picked the top three instruments that he was interested in playing and then they worked with him on the mouthpieces to see how they did.  
                                               

She was very impressed with how he did with the bassoon, but he also tried the trumpet and tuba (Brian played trombone in high school for a few years, so I think Reed wanted to try out something in the brass section also).  The tuba also seemed to be a good fit, but in the end he decided to go with the bassoon.  There aren't many that will play that, so he'll have better instruction because he'll be in a lot smaller class.  I think he's really looking forward to it.  :)

Sunday, March 8, 2015

The last couple of weeks...

It was my turn to have Reed for kid/parent date night, so I took him to Simply Fondue in Fort Worth. We had the BEST time. 
Right when I said I want to take a picture and he threw up the hashtag.  I'm guessing it's for 
#momisthebestdateever
Or so I choose to believe.  :)



We started off with cheese fondue.  They brought out bread cubes and veggies (broccoli, cauliflower, carrots) and even some baby pickles. Yum!  Then we ordered our meal.  They had a list of meats to choose from and we chose 3 each.  With those, they brought some ravioli, some different veggies and ac couple of other things to try.  She gave us instructions on how long to cook each meat, so I used the timer on my phone just to make sure everything was cooked correctly.


After the main course, we were excited for dessert.  We chose what kind of chocolate we wanted and they brought us marshmallows, fruit, cheesecake balls, cookie dough balls... it was all very good.  The whole meal took a couple of hours and I really enjoyed having that time with my oldest.  He's a really fun kid.
I needed gas on the way home and my date pumped it for me. :)


We've had some sleet/snow/icy weather over the last couple of weeks and the boys have gotten 4 days off from school.  They've loved it and it's been fun to see the snow, but we're all kind of over it at this point. We wouldn't last a week up north.  :)
Anyway, the cold weather always brings out the wildlife.  We had a lot of birds eating the fallen birdseed, even a few Cardinals. 

One morning a little buck went walking across the back yard.  Sorry- bad picture.

After the heavier snowfall, I got a few pretty pictures...

Should be ready to move into soon.
Anyday now.
From the upstairs balcony...

And yes, the boys have ziploc bags over their gloves and duct taped to their jacket sleeves.  We didn't have any snow gloves, so we tried this to keep them from getting wet.  Didn't everybody do that?  :)

One more piece of news, Brandon and Becky are expecting!!!  Take a peek at their sonogram...
 Do you see that? Baby A AND Baby B???? They are having twins!!!! We could not be more excited for them and I can't wait to meet these two precious little babies and be an aunt again!!! 

Monday, February 16, 2015

What we've been up to...

We've never participated in the science fair before, but this year Reed was required to do a project.  We started out with a cheese molding project and then Brian and I left on our trip to Costa Rica.  The boys stayed with Gammy and DadDad and during the trip it was obvious that the cheese thing was not going to work.  So (very thankfully) they came up with a couple of back up plans.  After all was said and done, we went with the gravity project - dropping a few different items at the same time and seeing which will hit the ground first.  Reed and I spend a few hours with my cricut and a glue stick and finished up his project board.

He was very pleased with his grade. :)

Reed and I went to his first middle school meeting at the end of January.  I can't believe this kid is 2/3 of the way through 5th grade. UGH.  Man, how it flies.

We also finally started our parent/kid date night in January.  We've been talking about it for a while, so I was glad to finally put it into practice.  To start out, I put "Mom" and "Dad" on two pieces of paper and let Hudson draw.  He got me, so Reed went with Brian (next month we'll switch kids and so on).  We each decided to go to a movie and then to eat.  Brian and Reed saw Project Almanac and ate at Pastafina.  Hudson and I went to see Paddington and I told him we could eat wherever he wanted to... and he chose Dairy Queen.  We had a lot of fun and I think it's something that we will all look forward to each month.


There was the most beautiful sunset the other evening.  I took about 30 pictures and they just don't do it justice.  It was gorgeous!


On February 5th, Hudson turned 7.  We got some donuts for breakfast and I put a candle in one to sing him Happy Birthday... he was still a little bit asleep and the light was a little too bright. :)

I went up to the school later that afternoon with cupcakes for his class.  This kid was loving' his birthday. 


And in his backpack, I found a note from his first secret admirer.  No idea who it is from, but it was super cute! :)


On the 7th, we had Hudson's birthday party at the bowling alley.  Our bowling alley here was old,  run down and smelled terribly of smoke.  When the owners retired at the end of the summer, someone else bought it, gutted it and completely remodeled it.  We had the best time.  The cousins playing air hockey while waiting for bowling to start.

We bowled for an hour...



After bowling, we went to the party room and had pizza and cake.





Hudson wanted a Pokemon named Mega Charzard on his cake.  The cake actually ended up looking pretty close to the thing, so score.


Then we opened presents...


Lots has been happening with the house also, so hopefully we're only looking at a few more weeks until we get to move.  I'll be VERY ready for things to settle down again. :)

Sunday, January 18, 2015

Costa Rica: A trip to remember... FOR SURE


Brian won a trip to Mexico last year through his lumber company and this year he won another - to Costa Rica!  We were super excited to go somewhere new that we've never been.
Before we left, I compared the weather - left is Granbury and right is at the resort.
Woo-hoo!

Our flight was at 6:00 am Tuesday morning, so we left the house around 3:15.  We went by and picked up Walter and Sharon, friends of ours and another builder and his wife that were also going on the trip.  When we got to the airport, we saw some sweet friends Nat & Stacey that were randomly on our first flight with us!  What are the odds?

I didn't take my Dramamine early enough and didn't eat a good breakfast, so I was nauseated most of the flight to Miami.  We had a short layover and I was able to eat a real meal and felt much better.  Another 2 hour flight, baggage, customs and then we hopped on a bus to make the 2 hour drive to the resort.  We stayed at Dreams Las Mareas.  It was gorgeous, but a LONG way from anything else.  We traveled 13 hours that day. Yikes.
That evening we had a welcome dinner for all the couples - there were about 15 or 16 couples total. We met Logan and Mandy Cross and really hit it off.  They are a super sweet Christian couple and we had lot in common. 
On Wednesday morning, Brian slept in and I went and ate some breakfast.  I claimed a lounger and settled in by the pool.  I read 2 books by Melanie Shankle on this trip - The Antelope in the Living Room and Sparkly Green Earrings.  Great vacation books - I highly recommend them.  

Brian joined me a little later and after some serious sitting and reading, we decided to eat lunch.
He ordered red snapper and it came fully intact (minus the guts).  Head, eyeballs, tail...  Ick.

Here we are checking out the beach after lunch.  I think this is where something bit/stung my toe.  It swelled a little and made huge blister on the underside.  I layered on my purification and lavender and it really helped to keep it from getting worse.  

Sunset view from our room.

That night Brian and I ate with Logan and Mandy at the Italian restaurant.  It was a super fun dinner and 2 1/2 hours flew by with good conversation and lots of laughs.  
On Thursday we decided to go zip lining.  Almost all the excursions were a long bus ride away from the hotel and after our long travel day on Tuesday, we decided to stay close.  Luckily there was a zip line only 30 minutes away.  On the way, just hanging in some trees but the side of the road were some white faced monkeys (think Marcel from Friends).  The picture stinks, but if you zoom in, you can see them.

When we booked the tour, the guy told us to do the hike up to the top of the zip line.  It was a hot and sweaty trek, but beautiful scenery.  Towards the end it started to sprinkle on us which was pretty nice.

In our gear ready to go.



It was a lot of fun. Standing on the platforms at the end of each zip line was a little scary - we were tethered to the tree so we wouldn't fall, but it was still pretty high up in the air.  
After a short drive back to the resort, we showered and got ready for dinner.  I had to take a picture right after we got ready before my hair got big.  
Costa Rica = humidity = BIG, uncontrollable hair

Another beautiful view from our room.
The resort is huge.  I wore my Fitbit and could easily get to 8,000 steps without even trying.  Beautiful place.
On Friday, we had a day full of NOTHING.  It was awesome.  
(We did have to go buy sunscreen because I forgot to bring some.  Turns out, if your resort is in the middle on nowhere, you can charge as much as you want for stuff and people will buy it.  A tube of Banana Boat was $26.  Yep.  Needless to say, I didn't buy any souvenirs.  I was crossing my fingers for a store at the airport.)
We laid out all morning by the pool and then went to lunch.  Brian got this fruit off of the salad bar and we had to google it.  Turns out it was a passion fruit.  The inside was disgusting.

  It was like a pile of snot with black seeds in it.  

He ate it and said it was good and wanted me to try it.  I did and the flavor was good, but I just couldn't get over the texture. One bite was plenty. Blech.
We had our farewell dinner that evening and headed back to the room to pack.
The next morning we had to have our luggage out in the hallway early, so Brian got up to eat breakfast with me.  We headed to the airport - a tiny, tiny airpot. Luckily there was a store, so I found shirts for the boys and an ornament for the Christmas tree.  We boarded our flight and went to our seats.  We were only about 4 rows from the very back of the plane.  Our seats weren't together, but there was an aisle seat on Brian's row that no one was sitting in.  When we saw that it didn't have an assigned passenger, I moved over beside him and sat in the middle with him on the aisle.  The flight attendant said that the seat was broken and the screen didn't work and the man on the flight before us had complained.  We said we didn't care, that we just wanted to sit together and said that was fine.  Sitting right in front of us were Logan and Mandy.  We chatted with them a little and photobombed their airplane selfie. :)  

The plane took off and about 15 minutes into the flight, I was watching Downton Abbey and Brian was reading a book on his iPad.  I saw out of the corner of my eye Brian put his iPad away and when I looked at him, he seemed a little uncomfortable.  He started fiddling with the vent above him.  He had a strange look on his face and I took one of my earbuds out and asked him if he was okay.  He said "I don't feel good.  I'm hot." Then in about 3 seconds his body went rigid.  His arms pulled into his sides and his eyes were wide open, staring blankly in front of him.  I grabbed his arm and said "Brian?" about 3 or 4 times, getting louder each time and he wasn't responding at all.  My first thought was that he was having a stroke or a seizure.  I screamed at the back of the plane that I needed someone to help.  The flight attendants were all in the back getting ready to serve the drinks and they came running.  The next few minutes were a blur. There was a rush of people that came over and tried to get him to respond.  He wouldn't, so they pulled him out of his seat and laid him down in the aisle.  I have never been that scared in my life. I heard the pilot come over the intercom say there was a medical emergency and ask if there was a doctor on board.  There were about 7 or 8 people crowded around him in a tiny space trying to assess the situation.  I heard someone say "Does he have a pulse?" and at that very moment I truly believed that I was watching my husband slip away right in front of my eyes.   They peppered me with questions - "Has he eaten? What did he eat? Does he have allergies? Has he been drinking? Is he on any medication? Does he have a family history of heart problems?"  I answered to the best of my knowledge and waited to hear his voice or that he was responding.  Mandy reached back between the seats, grabbed my hand and started praying fervently for Brian. I hung on to her hand for dear life and prayed right along with her.  After about 2-3 minutes (seemed like an hour), I heard Brian's voice.  I leaned over and saw him alert and talking. As it went on, I learned that the guy sitting directly behind Brian (his name was Milton) is a medic in the Navy Corp. Also on the flight - a doctor, a surgeon and 2 nurses (one of which is married to one of the home builders with us on the trip and a nurse in the ER at Harris SW).  I am absolutely positive that it was NOT a coincidence.  Someone finally turned to me and said " He wants you to know that he is okay."  That just tells you how much better he was - I'm sure he knew I was going absolutely crazy.  He was in the aisle for about 30 minutes while they got him started on oxygen, took his blood pressure and got him stabilized enough to get him up and then laid down in a row of seats.  At this point they had all pretty much decided that he had passed out from dehydration.  The flight crew and the people sitting all around me were reassuring me that he would be okay.  The flight attendants were awesome.  They worked right alongside the nurse and medic - with efficiency and calmness.  They were asking me if I needed anything and reassuring me that Brian was doing much better. Once they got Brian in the row of seats, Debbie (the ER nurse) started a saline IV on his arm.   I sat down by Mandy in Logans seat (Logan had gotten up when it all happened and a flight attendant asked him to go up to the front of the plane to guard the cockpit since all the flight attendant were stuck in the back).  Not only was it an absolute blessing that we had so many medical personnel on board, but it was also a blessing that Mandy was there right in front of me.  She spent the next couple of hours talking to me about all kinds of things and kept me calm.  Milton (the medic) told me that Brian needed to be drinking water every 10 minutes, so I watched my clock and was diligent about it.  Every time I turned around to give him water, he was squeezing my hand, smiling at me and reassuring me that he was fine.  The flight attendants had put together a plan that when we landed, they were going to let everybody else off and paramedics would come on the plane and check Brian out.  Brian needed to go to the bathroom, so they sat him up for about 5 minutes and when he seems to be okay, they let him go to the bathroom and come back and sit down.  I sat down by him and we were about 45 minutes from landing.  He reassured me he was fine, I cried and repeatedly told him how much I loved him. :) After a bit, he said he was feeling like he was going to pass out again.  His eyelids started drooping and his was swaying to the side and he passed out again.  I vaulted out of the middle seat so we could get him layed down and yelled at Milton who jumped up help.  After that happened, the pilot came back on the intercom and said that when we landed (in about 30 minutes) everyone needed to stay seated and the paramedics were going to come on board and take Brian off first.  We landed and every person on that plane stayed seated and calm. It was very humbling to see the concern these people had for someone that most of them didn't know from Adam.  Brian was coherent again and saying that he felt much better.  The paramedics came on and Milton handed them a sheet of paper with all his vitals recorded on it and gave them a run down of what had taken place.  They talked with Brian for a bit, decided to wheel him out on an aisle chair (just a wheelchair but small enough to fit down the aisle of the plane).  They got him on it and strapped him in (like a mental patient kind of strapped in) and started down the aisle.  Of course the chair was facing backwards and just to make it more awkward he was staring at all the passengers right in the face as he went down the aisle.  Plus, everybody started applauding and if you know Brian, you know he LOVED that. :)  I grabbed up all of our stuff and followed them off.  The paramedics took him over to a corner and hooked him up to machines and did some tests for blood sugar, heart, blood pressure, etc.  The rest of the passengers were leaving the plane and walking by us.  As I had mentioned before, we knew about 30 people on the flight.  We had multiple people stop to check on him and give me hugs and words of encouragement.  All three of the flight attendants even gave me a hug.  The pilot stopped to ask if I needed anything.  I was amazed at the amount of concern and consideration - American Airlines is awesome.  It didn't feel like they were trying to just cover their bases for liability reasons - it was true concern.  After the paramedics checked him out, they said that it was his choice to go to the hospital.  He declined ( I wanted him to go), so the paramedic said that he needed to go to the doctor sometime this week to have some tests run.  They gave him a choice to be wheeled through the airport out to the car and I told him that  if he wasn't going to the hospital, the compromise would be to stay in the wheelchair for the walk to the car.  He knew I was frazzled and probable would've agreed to almost anything to keep me from flipping out. :)
After the paramedics let us go, things went pretty smoothly after that because I had some much help from people.  Walter and Sharon stayed with us and helped carry all our stuff.  We were met by a customs officer that helped expedite the customs process.  Dan (another one of the builders) got our suitcases off of the baggage claim belt for us so we didn't have to chase them down.  We made it to the car and Walter drove us home.  
We have had a lot of texts from people checking on Brian today and making sure that he was okay.  After replaying it in our minds (which is what we've been doing since it happened) we're pretty much convinced that he was dehydrated.  As the trip went on, he started drinking less and less water and more Cokes.  The dehydration coupled with the change in altitude just got the better of him - the first time he passed out was when we were ascending and the second time we were descending.  He's still going to go to the doctor this week and have some tests run just to be safe.  
I am so thankful for how everything turned out.  There were so many things that make me absolutely positive that God was with us on that flight.  In the beginning we weren't sitting together, but it was a full flight and he was on an aisle with a broken chair that no one was sitting in.   If I hadn't been sitting beside him, I wouldn't have known what was happening and been able to get help so quickly.  The fact that we had new Christian friends sitting in front us that prayed for us and helped me to stay calm through the whole ordeal.  The fact that he had a medic sitting right behind him. The fact that there were FIVE people in the medical field on board.  God was definitely there  - no denying it.

So, Costa Rica.  Beautiful place and all in all a good trip.
It ended with a bang to say the least. :)

UPDATE - 1/21:
Brian was in bed all day yesterday which added to my worry of something being really wrong.  We saw his doctor today the doctor seems to think passing out was essentially a 'perfect storm' of dehydration, vacation food, being tired, being in a cramped, warm airplane., etc. and he says there's nothing to support any indication of other underlying problems. He also thinks the sickness from yesterday was unrelated to the passing out, that he just picked something up somewhere.